You Complete Me

Today I am writing about how a relationship fails and rather going on and on with how, I will focus on how you can save it. So first let me ask you. Do you get easily disappointed things do not happen according to your anticipation? Yes....  Then let me assure you negative feelings is a curse. If you will fail in controlling your sentiments, you will not be successful in a relationship. It is important to analyze your feelings before they start to control over your intuition.  Remember the saying, ‘Drops of water make an ocean’, similarly, slight misinterpretations, and expectations create a strong feeling of abhorrence and revenge. When you find your partner is not satisfying your hopes, talk thoroughly and know what to expect. The thoughts like, ‘He or she will surely know what I want!’ or ' He or she understands the stress I am going through!’- Such thoughts show positivity and attachment couples feel for one another. But such expectations may lead to communication gaps gradually. Subsequently, thinking that ‘I don’t think he will like it’ or “I am not sure she knows my problems” convey sadness and destructive feelings entering into a relationship. Such mysteries hidden in your heart are the root cause of emerging solid misunderstanding between a couple. Over the years, small misconception about partner can bring down a relationship itself. So, what can you do to keep a strong relationship with your partner? Here are some guidelines that may help you: The primary step is to start noticing your feelings whenever they develop. Gradually, try to control them– eagerness, annoyance, irritation, frustration, etc. Be open about your feelings. Negative outbursts happen due to irritation, frustration, and disappointment. So, express your feelings in an honest and light manner to your partner. Keep away from your ego. Be a good listener to your partner and try to understand what he/she wants Don’t play a blame game rather try to find and execute a way out even if your partner fails to do so Communicate with empathy. Sit together to discuss the matter when both of you are comfortable and have ample energy to listen and one another and find solutions. Learn from each situation in life and understand how it affects both of you. Do not feel shy in communicating your true feelings to your partner. Do not keep mentioning to unwanted conditions that have made history. Be positive. Try to forgive and forget each other for the past for a better future. Try to show sincere apprehension in understanding your partner’s perspective. Feel sorry for the trauma your life partner is going through. Try not to argue under stress situations Try ways to make days special for your partner as it shows you care. All relationships started with love will grow stronger as it does the magic when all other things fail. Bonds of love need to be strengthened repeatedly. So, keep telling your life partner how much he or she means to you. But, Love alone is not adequate. With the passage of time, a better cognitive persuasion makes a relationship stronger than ever before. Life becomes interesting if you handle it well with patience, love and care. Worrying only increase the problems. So, keeping yourself calm in the stressful circumstances, this will motivate your partner as well and together you can definitely overcome the impediments. Love is not something to just let go when you are not feeling it. Once loved is always loved all you need to do is stick together and remember you both complete and compliment eachother. Stick together, stay blessed